A note for those who wish to follow.

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I live in a time where death is closer to me than it usually is for people of my presentation and socio-economic standing. It could be that this website outlives me; it could be that it won't. It is entirely possible that people who think they knew me or people who think they did not know me enough find this place, regardless of whether I am still alive or not. For them, I wish to leave the possibility of peering into my psyche. To that end, I will list pieces of media here that have fundamentally shaped me. This list includes both media that I have consumed and that I have made myself. I list things that I have made myself here not out of vanity (I hope), but because they helped me express, investigate, and sometimes actually shape my psyche in ways other things I have done never could. I consider this the single best window into my being that I can offer, and while it can never be complete, I invite you to take a gander, nonetheless.


  • "Yes, you are trans enough", by Mia Violet
  • "The Mismeasure of Man" by Stephen Jay Gould
  • "Daring Greatly" by Brene Brown
  • "Reasons to stay alive" by Matthew Higgs
  • "The Tombs of Atuan" by Ursula K. Le Guin
  • "More than two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory" by Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux
  • "Outliers" by Malcom Gladwell
  • "So good they can't ignore you" by Cal Newport
  • "The picture of Dorian Grey" by Oscar Wild
  • "Range: Why Generalists Triumph in a Specialized World" by David Epstein
  • "Bullshit Jobs" by David Graeber
  • "The Anthropocene Reviewed" by John Green
  • "Laziness Does not Exist" by Devon Price
  • "Invisible Women" by Caroline Criado-Perez


  • "Transgender dysphoria blues" by Against Me! (the album)
  • "Hummingbird" by ID3 ft. Soundmouse
  • "Sugar" by Sleepdealer
  • "Epiphany" by TwoThrids, Veela & Faint
  • "New Orleans - Bcee Remix" by Hybrid Minds, Holly Drummond & BCee
  • "Need to Feel Loved" by Skyweep, Zoe Durrant & UnClubbed
  • "Breath in Air" by Phaeleh
  • "Paradise" by ANOHNI
  • "Wear sunscreen" by Baz Luhrmann
  • "Neverland" by Philter
  • "Opium" by Jacoo
  • "Not Ready To Go" by Diane Coffee